Monika de Myer Photography
Wedding and Lifestyle Photography Blog
Tuesday, January 14, 2025
Gianna & Aaron • Bear Brook Valley Wedding
Tuesday, December 24, 2024
Merry Christmas from The de Myers!
Friday, December 20, 2024
Jack is 11!
• NEW JERSEY FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHER •
What a year it’s been for Jack! As he turns 11, it’s amazing to look back on everything he’s accomplished and the memories he’s made.
This was his first year playing baseball, and he truly shined. He picked up the game quickly and played with determination, making it clear he’s found a new favorite sport. While he no longer plays football, his love for it hasn’t faded. He still knows all the NFL stats and players, and watching games with him is always a highlight.
Jack’s talent for math has continued to impress. He’s been acing quizzes and tackling tough problems with ease, showing his natural gift for numbers. At home, one of the most special parts of the year has been reading together at bedtime. He still loves hearing stories, and those quiet moments are a reminder of how quickly time is passing.
His piano playing has also been a source of joy. Whether he’s practicing or performing at a concert, his music fills the house and makes everyone proud. Jack’s dedication to learning and his enthusiasm for new challenges have made this past year truly remarkable.
Here’s to another incredible year ahead as Jack grows, learns, and continues to share his many talents with the world.
Tuesday, November 26, 2024
Jenna + Daniel • West Point & Princeton Engagement Session
• NEW JERSEY WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER •
Our day began at West Point, a place Jenna knows as a professor at the Academy. The grounds, steeped in history and tradition, were a breathtaking backdrop for their engagement session. The mighty Hudson River glistened under the summer sun, and the historic charm of the old train station added a touch of timeless romance.
Every photo seemed to tell a story. Whether it was the laughter shared as they strolled hand-in-hand or the quiet moments beneath the Academy’s towering buildings, their love radiated against the iconic West Point scenery. It was clear that this place wasn’t just a setting but a reflection of Jenna’s journey and the couple’s shared respect for history and tradition.
From West Point, we embarked on a journey to Princeton, where Dan spent his university years. The drive was a scenic one, building anticipation for the architectural splendor that awaited us. Princeton did not disappoint.
The campus’ gothic spires, lush quads, and historic courtyards seemed to echo with stories of the past, offering the perfect complement to Jenna and Dan’s narrative. Walking through the pathways, the couple’s smiles and lighthearted energy were infectious. They danced in the quads, shared donuts, and laughed their way through the session.
Jenna and Dan’s engagement session was more than just a photoshoot; it was a celebration of their journey and the places that have shaped them. From the historic elegance of West Point to the academic charm of Princeton, every moment felt magical.
Their Love Story
The Proposal
When asked what they love most about each other, their answers perfectly capture their bond. Jenna cherishes Dan’s kind and fun-loving spirit, his perfect mix of intellect and empathy, and the way he makes her feel deeply loved. For Dan, it’s all about the team they’ve built together. From the very start, their relationship has been about designing and building the life of their dreams, and with Jenna by his side, he knows there are no limits to what they can achieve.
As a couple, Jenna and Dan strike a balance between planning and spontaneity. They describe themselves as “planners who plan to go with the flow,” crafting intentional plans that leave room for flexibility and adventure. Together, they love indulging in coffee and donuts, exploring new cuisines, reading, enjoying sunny weather, watching sunsets and stargazing, and dreaming about the future they’re creating. Their shared joy for life’s simple pleasures is matched by their passion for travel. Jenna treasures memories of Bermuda and Puerto Rico, while Dan holds Guatemala close to his heart. As a couple, their favorite destination so far has been Turks and Caicos, where they relaxed, explored, and made unforgettable memories together.
Now, as they prepare to celebrate their wedding, Jenna and Dan are looking forward to sharing their love with family and friends. Jenna is especially excited for the vows, the cake, and reconnecting with loved ones she doesn’t often see, while Dan eagerly awaits the moment he sees Jenna’s dress, the energy of the dance floor, and the heartfelt speeches from those who know them best. Their venue, with its elegant marble, glittering chandeliers, and castle-like charm, provides the perfect setting for the beginning of their next chapter.
From a coffee date to a breathtaking proposal and beyond, Jenna and Dan’s story is one of love, intention, and shared dreams.
Friday, November 1, 2024
Lauren + Josh • Bear Brook Valley Wedding
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Wednesday, August 21, 2024
Heidi + Joe • Willowwood Arboretum Engagement
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Heidi and Joe’s journey began in Poughkeepsie, NY, where they met through mutual friends at work. What started as casual hangouts during game nights, work lunches, and parties quickly blossomed into a deep connection. They discovered shared passions for board games, video games, and music, and it wasn’t long before they started dating in February 2017.
Their first date took place in Heidi’s college town of New Paltz, NY. They enjoyed a relaxed evening at McGillicuddy's, followed by a jazz concert—an evening that marked the beginning of their beautiful relationship.
Fast forward to a memorable vacation in Charleston, where Joe planned a perfect proposal. After a fun-filled day exploring Fort Sumter and the Aquarium, Joe got down on one knee at the Waterfront Park, sealing their love story with a heartfelt proposal.
When asked what she loves most about Joe, Heidi shared that it’s the way he makes her feel and how he helps her grow. She loves that Joe is always honest with her while being supportive, and how she can feel completely comfortable and open with him. For Joe, it’s Heidi’s adventurous spirit that stands out. He admires how she pushes him out of his comfort zone and loves her hardworking nature, financial savvy, and commitment to self-care. Heidi inspires Joe to be better, and together they complement each other beautifully.
As a couple, Heidi and Joe strike a balance between spontaneity and planning. While Heidi is more spontaneous, Joe enjoys having a plan. This blend of personalities adds a dynamic element to their relationship, making their adventures together even more enjoyable. Whether it’s a cozy home date night with wine and stovetop popcorn or watching food shows like "Master Chef," they cherish their time together. Traveling and playing golf are also among their favorite activities, with each new destination offering them a chance to explore and create lasting memories.
Their favorite vacations reflect their love for discovery and new experiences. Heidi fondly recalls their trip to the Outer Banks, where they immersed themselves in the area’s history and enjoyed each other’s company. Joe, on the other hand, treasures their Charleston vacation, especially the culinary delights, historical explorations, and the festive Christmas lights at the aquarium.
Heidi and Joe’s engagement session at Willowwood Arboretum was nothing short of magical. The love they share, combined with the natural beauty of the arboretum, made for a truly unforgettable day.
I’m beyond excited to capture the next chapter of Heidi and Joe’s love story this September. If their engagement session is any indication, their wedding day will be filled with as much joy, love, and beauty as this special spring day.
Congratulations, Heidi & Joe!
Monday, July 1, 2024
Maegan + Ryan's Growing Family • Willowwood Arboretum
• NEW JERSEY FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHER •
Willowwood Arboretum's serene outdoor location perfectly reflected the family's warmth and joy. The golden hour provided magical lighting, casting a soft, warm glow over the scene. The lush greenery added a touch of nature's beauty, complementing the family's radiant smiles. One of the highlights was capturing the pure joy and excitement of the parents as they anticipated the arrival of their new baby. Tender moments between the mom and dad, their loving interactions with their son, and gentle touches on the mother's baby bump spoke volumes about their deep connection and the love that fills their home.
Their son was a delight to photograph. He showed excitement about becoming an older brother, making the shoot even more special.
This growing family session was more than just a photo shoot; it was a celebration of life, love, and the beautiful future ahead. Photographing this family's journey has been a privilege and a joy, and seeing their love grow and evolve has been truly special.
Sunday, June 16, 2024
Happy Father's Day!
• NEW JERSEY FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHER •
Thank you for being a role model, a protector, and our kids' biggest cheerleader. We’re so lucky to have you.
We love you more than words can say. Enjoy your special day!
On this special day, I also want to send warm wishes to my dad in Poland. Love you, Dad!
Kocham Cię, Tato!
Thursday, May 30, 2024
Nicole + Tim • Bear Brook Valley Wedding
• NEW JERSEY WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER •
Nicole’s bridesmaids were a vision in a beautiful array of rust and dusty rose dresses, with each dress adding its unique touch to the overall aesthetic. The mix of satin and velvet fabrics added a luxurious texture to the scene, perfectly complementing the fall setting.
Before the ceremony, Nicole and Tim shared a private first look. They chose to exchange personal vows in this quiet moment, away from the hustle and bustle. This heartfelt exchange was filled with emotion, setting a beautiful tone for the rest of the day.
The outdoor ceremony was nothing short of magical. With the overcast sky providing a gentle light and under a beautiful arch, decorated with an array of stunning fall flowers, Nicole and Tim stood before their loved ones and promised their lives to each other. The setting was serene, and the love in the air was palpable. Guests were visibly moved as the couple exchanged rings and sealed their vows with a kiss.
Nicole and Tim’s fall wedding at Bear Brook Valley was a testament to their love and the beauty of that fall day. The mix of rust and dusty rose bridesmaids' dresses, the intimate vow exchange, and the joyous celebration all came together to create an unforgettable day. I was honored to capture these precious moments and witness the beginning of their beautiful journey together.